Kids Coaching
Kids Coaching – Celebrating Neurodiversity
Every child is beautifully unique — and neurodivergent children bring an incredible richness of creativity, curiosity, and perspective to the world.
I provide gentle, supportive coaching for neurodivergent children and teens, either 1:1, groups, in person or online — helping them (and you as a parent) navigate challenges while recognising and celebrating their inherent strengths and remarkable qualities.
This Space is for you if your Child or Teen
- Has been diagnosed as neurodivergent
- Is currently going through the assessment process, or
- You suspect they may be neurodivergent
Wherever you are in your journey, your child may be experiencing some of the following:
Common Challenges Neurodivergent Children Face
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Social Struggles
Finding it difficult to start conversations, make or maintain friendships, or understand social cues and unpredictability in interactions.
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Communication
Learn to understand what people mean when they say something, understand hand gestures, body language and intonation.
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Emotional Regulation
Big emotions that can feel overwhelming — anger, anxiety, frustration, or sadness that last for hours. Sensitivity to changes in routine or small mistakes that can lead to meltdowns or tears.
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Challenging Behaviour
Repetitive, physical, or disproportionate reactions that can be distressing for both the child and those around them.
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Concept of Time (Time Blindness)
Difficulty gauging how long things take, missing appointments or deadlines, or becoming completely absorbed in activities they love.
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Motivation
Highly driven by personal interests — motivated by what excites them and resistant to tasks that feel boring, irrelevant, or overwhelming.
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Personal Care
Needing reminders for daily hygiene like brushing teeth or showering and sometimes going days without noticing these needs.
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Sensory Sensitivities
Strong reactions to certain foods, clothing textures, lights, sounds, or environments that can cause discomfort or withdrawal.
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Executive Functioning
Challenges with planning, organising, prioritising, remembering, or self-regulating.
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Sleep
Struggles to switch off, difficulty self-settling, or being out of sync with typical sleep patterns — leading to exhaustion and daily routine challenges.
Through Coaching, Your Child or Teen Can Learn To:
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Manage Their Neurodivergence Positively
Gain practical tools and strategies to navigate challenges with confidence and self-understanding.
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Unlock Their Potential
Recognise and nurture their unique strengths, talents, and passions to reach their full potential.
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Build Confidence and Self-Esteem
Develop a strong sense of self-worth, emotional resilience, and belief in their own capabilities.
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Regulate Emotions
Learn techniques to manage big feelings, calm their mind, and express emotions in healthy, empowering ways.
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Communicate with Confidence
Enhance social and communication skills to build better friendships and stronger relationships.
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Thrive in Daily Life
Strengthen independence, motivation, and executive functioning to create more ease in everyday living.
And for You, the Parent…
Raising a neurodivergent child can be both deeply rewarding and, at times, overwhelming. My role is to walk alongside you — with understanding, compassion, and practical support.
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Understand and Support
Your Child Better Gain insight into your child’s unique neurotype and learn how to nurture their strengths.
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Feel Empowered and Informed
Develop tools and strategies to help your child thrive — while also feeling more confident in your parenting approach.
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Reduce Stress and Overwhelm
Discover calm, structured ways to manage challenges and bring more peace into your family life.
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Strengthen Your Connection
Foster a deeper, more positive relationship with your child through empathy and shared understanding.
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Find Hope and Optimism
Feel encouraged and supported about your child’s future — knowing they can live a happy, confident, and fulfilling life.
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A Collaborative Approach
Together, we’ll create a personalised coaching plan tailored to your child’s needs — blending practical tools, emotional support, and holistic guidance.
Empowering Young People to Thrive with Confidence
In today’s ever-changing and often overwhelming world, children and teenagers are facing challenges unlike any generation before them.
From social pressures and academic expectations to emotional overwhelm and self-doubt — many young people are silently battling on multiple fronts.
It’s no surprise that so many struggle with low self-confidence, difficulty navigating friendships, and managing their emotions.
And for neurodivergent children, these challenges can feel even more intense.
As a parent, you may find yourself feeling lost, worried, or unsure how to truly help your child — despite trying everything you can.
That’s where I come in.
Where Did It All Begin?
My journey into coaching and supporting neurodiverse children began at home — as a mum.
I’m a proud mother to a wonderful neurodiverse son, diagnosed with Autism, ADHD, Dyspraxia, and Dysgraphia. Like many parents, I wanted the best for him, but the path wasn’t always easy.
I was living in France at the time, and despite my efforts to advocate for him, there was little to no support available at school. I watched him struggle to fit into a system that didn’t understand or nurture his incredible mind, and he had the added challenge of schooling in his second language, French. The frustration, exhaustion, and sense of isolation were overwhelming at times — yet, I refused to give up.
That experience became my awakening.
Determined to help my son thrive, I immersed myself in learning everything I could about neurodiversity — training as an Autism Coach, ADHD Coach, Neurodiversity Coach, Kids Life Coach, and Anxiety Coach. I wanted to understand how to unlock his potential and give him the tools to navigate life with confidence and self-belief.
I was, quite literally, boots on the ground — finding creative, practical, and compassionate ways to help him through the challenges of school and everyday life.
And the result?
Today, my son has graduated with a First-Class Honours Degree in Computer Science. 💫
I discovered how to tap into his unique gifts and extraordinary strengths, and it changed everything — for both of us.
That journey inspired my mission:
To help other parents and children navigate neurodiversity with understanding, hope, and empowerment — turning struggles into strengths and challenges into opportunities.
Kids Coaching is a powerful, proven approach that goes beyond traditional therapy or counselling.
It’s designed to give children and teens practical, real-world tools they can use every day — to feel calmer, more confident, and more capable of handling life’s ups and downs.
Unlike methods that focus only on problems, Shelly focuses on empowerment — teaching young people how to manage anxiety, improve self-esteem, handle challenges with resilience, and develop a positive, balanced mindset.
What Makes This Approach Different
My coaching helps children and teens:
- Overcome EBSA (emotional based school avoidance) and get back into school
- Build lasting self-confidence and a healthy sense of self-worth
- Strengthen emotional regulation and resilience
- Improve social and communication skills
- Develop focus, motivation, and optimism
- Gain tools for managing anxiety and school-related stress
- Create a stronger sense of identity and authenticity — letting go of comparisons and self-judgment
These are not quick fixes — they are lifelong skills that empower young people to thrive independently, with courage and calm.
The Results Speak for Themselves
Within just a few weeks of coaching, parents often notice profound, positive changes in their child or teen, including:
- Young people returning to school
- More harmony at home and improved parent-child relationships
- Reduced social anxiety and emotional overwhelm
- Greater resilience when dealing with bullying or social challenges
- Increased ability to stay calm and composed under pressure
- Healthier use of technology and social media
- Renewed motivation, purpose, and joy in daily life
- A noticeable increase in happiness and genuine smiles
A Brighter, Calmer, More Confident Future
Every young person deserves to feel seen, supported, and celebrated for who they are.
Through compassionate coaching and a proven system for transformation, your child can rediscover their confidence, manage life’s challenges, and begin to truly thrive.
Let’s help them step into their best self — calm, capable, and confident. 🌟
Ready to Begin?
Your child deserves to feel seen, understood, and celebrated for exactly who they are.
Let’s work together to build confidence, resilience, and joy — for both your child and your family.
- shellyburnstlc@gmail.com
- Call: 07503 158302
- DM on Facebook
✨ First consultation is free – let’s talk about how I can support your child’s journey.
